bat mitzvah gift

we were unable to attend my friend’s daughter’s bat mitzvah (we rsvp’d...telling her we had a trip planned..). looking for ideas on what to give?  thank you!


People traditionally give a card with cash/check in multiples of $18 - so, $36, $54 or $72 etc.

Amount varies by giver's financial circumstances and the relationship to the recipient - if this is a lifelong friend vs. a casual acquaintance.



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